If I have a question about etiquette, what resource would be most helpful?

The Wedding Blue Book by Crane and Co. is a traditional, yet modern, guide to reference when questions arise about wedding correspondence and etiquette. Typically most questions revolve around addressing outer and inner envelopes. The following examples should help answer those questions.

1. Example of the outer envelope if the couple is married and has the same last name:

Mr. and Mrs. William Edward Reynolds

Example of inner envelope:

Mr. and Mrs. Reynolds

*children’s names listed from oldest to youngest if included*

2. Example of the outer envelope if the couple is married and the woman kept her maiden name:

Ms. Claudia Smith

and Mr. William Reynolds

Example of the inner envelope:

Ms. Smith

and Mr. Reynolds

3. Example of outer envelope if the woman is a Doctor:

Mr. and Mrs. William Reynolds

OR

Doctor Claudia Reynolds and Mr. William Reynolds

Example of the inner envelope:

Doctor Reynolds and Mr. Reynolds

OR

Mr. and Mrs. Reynolds

4. Example of the outer envelope if the couple is unmarried and living together:

Miss Claudia Smith

Mr. William Reynolds

OR

Ms. Claudia Smith

Mr. William Reynolds

Example of the inner envelope:

Miss Smith

Mr. Reynolds

OR

Ms. Smith

Mr. Reynolds